Popular dancer Kaffy has shared thoughts on the separation between music legend 2Baba and actress Annie Idibia.
In an Instagram video, Kaffy drew from her close relationship with the couple to provide a thoughtful perspective.
Kaffy emphasised the importance of empathy over judgment, acknowledging 2Baba and Annie Idibia are navigating challenging circumstances.
She highlighted the unique pressures faced by male celebrities and noted that women can sometimes contribute to their struggles.
Kaffy also encouraged women to reassess their relationship expectations and take responsibility for their actions.
She said: “I want to speak on the Annie and 2Face situation. I am not going to speak from a place of judging anybody but from a perspective we all need to have. I am rooting for both of them as they are victims of their circumstances. I know both of them very well, and I’m not going to bash any of them. 2Face and Annie are a petri dish for us to learn not to judge. Let’s give grace and pray for them.
“Let me give you a perspective that could be the issue for male celebrities. They are usually under target, and we women are their biggest enemies when they are at a vulnerable moment in their careers. Did any man plan to have plenty baby mamas?
“Both of them have been through toxicity. An average male celebrity is a victim. Despite all of these problems, some girls are still in 2Baba’s DMs like this. I am not trying to absolve him of his problems—he should get help. Nobody is innocent!
“Let’s ask questions: Why are over 60% of marriages failing? Some of us women have that mindset that we will change him. We should stop! If we want to stop being victims, let’s do better. Because it is also a woman that is confusing the man; we have that much power. The devil is winning; let’s work on ourselves, we serve grace,” she added.
