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Businessman, Wale Jana, is of the opinion that the biggest prison in the world for women is marriage.
In a post shared on his Instagram page, Wale kicked against the idea of parents giving their daughters an ultimatum to find a man and start a family.
He argued that 90 percent of a woman’s glory is trapped if she ends up with the wrong man.
A 23-year-old Nigerian woman, Deborah Williams has come under fire after she sought advice on a Facebook group concerning her married benefactor.
According to the lady, the 50-year-old man has been taking care of her and kids as he is childless.
The lady who has a picture of a newborn baby on her wall, said each time she confesses her love for the said benefactor, he would tell her that Jesus loves her.
Her post didn’t go down with members of the group as many accused her of trying to break his marriage.
A Nigerian lady, Blessing Robert has advised women who are trying to prove they are ‘wife material’, to go back to the drawing table as cooking and doing laundry for men doesn’t work anymore.
“Dear Wife material, stop trying to prove nonsense. Cooking for a man and washing his clothes will not make him marry you. These days men have greater needs than food and laundry. Meanwhile, some have discovered that we hide our bad characters with those tricks. Doing wify duties as a girlfriend is not a guarantee. Stop proving nonsense ! Lets re-strategize”
Clergyman, Kingsley Okonkwo, has asked women to be wary of cheating men.
In a post shared on Twitter, the Lagos-based pastor stated that if a man cheats with a woman, there is every tendency he will cheat on her too, if they get married.
He pointed out that exchanging marital vows with a cheating man doesn’t change his character.
Solomon Buchi is warning men not to invest in women, especially when they are not married.
He said most of the women who are recipients of these investments end up dumping the men.
The ones who marry them make a fuss when they have to contribute in the home, Solomon said.
This comes after Solomon claimed he and his fiancee Arike Adeola are “no longer together”.
A Nigerian man has taken to Twitter to seek for advice for his friend whose wife started acting strangely after relocating to the UK with him.
According to @iMotivateAfrica, the agreement between his friend and his wife was for him to be a scholar while she works full time.
The Twitter user added that while his friend goes to school and works only 20 hours per week, his wife was working full time and was making more money than him.
He added that their marital issue began in the first quarter of this year as she stopped dropping money weekly. The Twitter user wrote;
So last year July, my friend tied the knot with the love of his life of 4 years. It looked like a promising union but we were wondering why man rushed because he was barely 26 and she was 23 years old. As a matter of fact, he just got a job of 90k VAT inclusive.
A month after their union, he called me that he was in the UK already with his newly wedded wife. I was so happy for him and I wished him good success even as he was far away from home.
Apparently, he is the scholar and his wife is the dependent. I.e, He goes to school and has only 20 hours to work per week while his wife was working full time and was making more money than he was.
The problem started in the first quarter of this year as she stopped dropping money for weekly as planned since she is automatically the breadwinner.My friend said
“She started from picking suspected calls, staying late out after work and refusing to drop money to sort the weekly bills which is supposed to be the plan.” Note: The whole japa tingy was an all expense paid relocation by the guy (my friend).
The problem has now escalated because my friend needs to pay the remaining school fees as it was half he paid before they both moved to the UK. Initial Plan: I go to school while you work and when I’m done with school, you will go to school while i work too.
Question is, what do women really want? Also, what advice do you have for my friend because as it now, he does not even have money to pay for school fees.
Lastly, is the lady seeing another person? (She fit don see person wey get P.R). My friend will be reading y’all tweets.
An Associate Professor of Film at Columbia University, Racquel Gates, has asked men to stop proposing to women on the day they are being celebrated for an achievement.
In a tweet thread, Racquel said the day a woman is being celebrated for an achievement she worked for is not the time to propose to her. She also adviced women to break up with their partners if they ever do this.
While some people agreed with her, others said she should not be telling women what to do in their relationships.
See different reactions below…
Actor, Kenneth Okonkwo has said that no matter how upset one is about their relationship, they should not threaten to breakup with their partners if they do not mean it.
He opined that in a moment of anger, lovers should focus on what got them angry without bringing up the threat of initiating a breakup.
US-based Nigerian businessman, Francis Van-Lare, has advised people who are getting into new relationships to have sex first.
Francis, who has been married and divorced five times, gave the advice while responding to a question American media personality, Steve Harvey, asked on Twitter.
