Lesbianism was not rampant in our time – Former Super Falcons star, Stella Mbachu

Former Super Falcons star, Stella Mbachu has opened up on lesbianism in women’s football and other issues facing sports development.

Mbachu who sat for an interview with Punch, noted that lesbianism was not rampant while playing in the national women’s team.

The footballer also revealed that their coaches at the time spoke against it. She said; I can’t say if lesbianism was rampant or not during my playing days, but I can confirm that we had it at that time too.

But the coaches at that time preached against it and discouraged us from the act, telling us the act is evil and we can’t use that to play football.

Every player at that time was informed about it and the disadvantages of practicing lesbianism. That is why it was not that rampant in our time.

Also debunking claims of women footballers not making good wives, she said;

No, I don’t agree with that. We have Mercy Akide, a women’s football star and she is married. We have female footballers that are married and are good wives.

The likes of Florence Omagbemi, Nkechi Egbe are married and are good wives to their husbands. It depends on what you want, not when you marry the wrong person.

Just like every other person in marriage, when you don’t get your own person, it will give you a problem, both of you will not flow very well. But when you marry the person that you love and want to stay with, everything will work well.

Talking about racism in football, Mbachu said;

During my playing days, I never paid attention to fans’ racist chants. Honestly, it does not bother me. My concern is to go to the pitch, play according to my coach’s instructions, do my best and make sure I shine.

Racism has returned to football fully and some countries are using that opportunity to abuse players. I will advise players to ignore any form of racist comments because I don’t see racism stopping soon.

FIFA is not serious about it; they need to caution the opposing fans, players and the teams. But if the world governing body is serious about it, racism would have reduced drastically in football.

Police arrest lesbian who allegedly stabbed her partner’s husband to death in Onitsha

The Anambra State Police Command has arrested a woman who allegedly stabbed her lesbian partner’s husband to death in Onitsha.

It was reported that the deceased, Ikechukwu Onuma, a staff College of Health, Onitsha, came home unannounced on Tuesday night, August 9, to find his wife, Nkemdilim in bed with another woman.

Unknown to him, Nkemdili, who he married in 2019, is allegedly a lesbian and had been keeping a female sex partner.

On catching them in the act, the lesbian identified allegedly attacked the man with a kitchen knife, stabbing him to death, after an argument ensued. Spokesperson of the command, DSP Toochukwu Ikenga, who confirmed the incident, said that the suspect has been arrested.

“We have a suspect in custody and the Commissioner of Police CP Echeng Echeng has ordered the immediate transfer of the case to State CID for a proper investigation,” he stated.

Preliminary information shows that the suspect stabbed the victim in the chest. He was rushed to the hospital before he was confirmed dead by the doctor on duty.”

Nigerian lady advises parents as she reveals how she became a lesbian

Taking to her Twitter page, Ebele Light, revealed how she was introduced to lesbianism at the young age. When she was either 7 or 8 years old. She wasn’t also introduced to lesbianism but also to porn addiction and masturbation. 

She wrote:

“My first introduction to lesbianism was when I was 7 or 8.

It was with the neighbour’s kids.

It first started with the normal “mummy and daddy” plays and before we knew it, we were getting under sheets and touching ourselves inappropriately.

“This was also how my struggle with masturbation and pornography began.

Our parents would let us play with the kids in the compound and, as long as there were no physical injuries or anything of that sort, they let us play “unsupervised.” 

“They were probably thinking “they are just children. What harm could possibly be done?”

I do not blame them at all. Because when they were young like we were at that age, the only kinds of play they knew involved stones, catapults, singing etc.

No one was getting under sheets.

“But things are not that way anymore.

It hurts my heart to say that it is a RARE thing to find an ‘innocent’ six year old. And I can say this because I had the privilege to teach both primary and secondary school children for a number of years.

“You need to hear some of the things these children say. You would be shocked at some of the things they know.

The devil is really working overtime, and he’s very particular about children.

If he can catch them young then he can control what kind of adults they become.

“I want parents and guardians (teachers inclusive) to be very mindful of the children in their care. Be very watchful.

Don’t just send them out to play because they’re making noise and you want to be alone.

Go out often and observe. Ask them questions about their play.

“Be interested in them.

Don’t always say “I’m tired” whenever they invite you to join them to play.

Join them sometimes. Find out what kind of languages they use when they play. Observe their body movements and how they interact with one another.

“If you notice anything that causes you to raise your eyebrows, don’t just write it off and say, “they’re just children. It doesn’t mean anything.”

Correct IMMEDIATELY.

And most importantly, pray for these children. I mean it. Your prayers will get to places your eyes won’t.”