Ghanaian marriage and relationship counselor, George Lutterodt, has said that mistresses commonly known as side chics are part of God’s grand scheme for successful marriages.
According to him, God blesses side chicks, and therefore no curse from an embittered wife would work against another woman.
Lutterodt revealed this on Ghana’s TV3 NewDay while discussing boundaries in marriage.
The Counselor referenced the Bible as proof that God blesses men with more women (wives). He mentioned King David’s son, Solomon as a man after God’s own heart who built a holy temple with his large entourage of wives, mistresses and concubines.
In his words; “The Bible says that God brought a man on earth called David. When David came he was so blessed to the extent that God wanted him to build a church for him. Unfortunately, when he saw Uriah’s wife bathing, he saw it, loved after it and went for it.
He didn’t use the right process to add the girl. He killed. God said, ‘Why did you do that so you will not be able to build a temple’. Then he had a son called Solomon. So Solomon builds a temple for God with how many wives and how many side chicks?
When God is in your business, he blesses you with more women. Those of us who are married to only two wives are suffering. A man who marries more than one will never d*e a premature death.”
Speaking on the issue of quarrels and unrest from jealousy and rivalry amongst wives, Lutterodt stated that women love competition and that having co-wives is not a problem.
He said; ”Side chicks are part of marriage, and they are the medium by which men grow longer, older, and they don’t die prematurely. Side chicks are part of the marriage structure. God blesses side chicks. There is no curse on the side.”
